Magic of Making Up Review
Do you feel unfair that you are dumped by your lover over an absurd reason? Do you miss him/her every night and day that last goodbye never happened? Well, we don’t have the machine to turn back time, but have a solution for you to win your ex back, The Magic of Making Up by T.W Jackson.
I am a big fan of books about winning ex back, and as far as T.W Jackson’s The Magic of Making Up is concerned, it’s the best I came across so far. It is a comprehensive guide, teaching you the things you should do right from the basics until the very last reserved tactics of winning your ex back.
So, are you exciting to find out more right now?
Yes undeniably there already are so many reviews done on The Magic of Making Up all flooding the internet, but all of them have one thing in common, they all give similar vague information. Do you know why they all say almost the same thing? Well, it is because those that wrote the review never actually read the book themselves, they copy from one another, spinning review articles and modify the language of presentation, hoping that you will fall into their trap and buy the book. They never tap into the real source of information, which is the book itself. I however based my review on The Magic of Making Up by extracting content directly from the book itself and not plagiarizing what is written by others. That is why as you may have noticed, I can do pin point review chapter by chapter of the book.
The Magic of Making Up boasted the fact that it helped more than 50,000 people from all across the globe, across all sorts of culture to win their ex back and discover what a true relationship is all about.
What is amazing about this book is, TW Jackson simple share his own experiences on winning ex back, and his method is proven universal. He felt how a person feels when facing a breakup, he suffered the typical symptoms of breakup such as loss of appetite, cries, low self-esteem, and being in the state of unproductiveness. For an author with authentic experience as such, there is no wonder why he can make his book a great tool to advice people on how to deal with relationships that hit the end of the road. In other words to say, T.W Jackson feels your pain and just as he got through his, he wants to help to get through yours.
As a reader, first let me give you some unbiased general comment for you to consider.
The Pros of The Magic of Making Up: This is really a detailed and complete guide in teaching you how to win your ex back, effectively and for good!
The Cons of The Magic of Making Up:: Being so comprehensive and detailed mean there is a large volume of information to be digested before putting into practice so, it does require plenty of time and in depth analysis to get the best out of this “bible”. While miracles are rare, usual things don’t happen overnight!
What’s Inside T.W Jackson’s The Magic of Making up?
This book consists of 8 chapters. The Magic of Making Up provides you with guides you from the very first page until the last, so it is a value for your money indeed. Even though this is a huge book, important information laid out in point form, step-by-step format and “the list of things to do” style.
My advice for you to get the most out of this book is, via this 4 processes of:
- Try understanding the content written
- Remember what is written, let them lock into your brain
- Assess what is written in the book and compare it to your situation
- Using ideas taken from the book draft out a plan
If you are worry whether you will be able to understand this book, don’t worry, because 8 chapters correspond to 8 steps (progress from basic to advance):
Chapter No.1: Why It is Not Over Just Yet – gain insights into the reason behind the relationship failure.
Chapter No.2: Get Yourself Thinking right – Learn to calm down, think reasonable , take control of situation.
Chapter No.3: Where Do You Stand? – Learn to remove the stumbling block of your relationship.
Chapter No.4: Re-Ignite the Spark of Passion – Draft out your plan.
Chapter No.5: Dates and Lovers – How get the help of other People to help winning back your ex.
Chapter No.6: Easing Back Into Your Relationship to Solidify Your Love.
Chapter No.7: Keep things going – how to keep things interesting and mend the old wounds.
Chapter No.8: If Your Relationship is beyond Saving – Learn how to Moving On.
The Magic of Making up Chapter 1
The Magic of Making Up step no.1, which is even before you start trying to win your ex back, try recalling the reason why your relationship ended in such a way. It might seems like rubbing on the wound but you have to ask yourself, “why your ex dumped you?”. I know it is rather painful thing to do, but it is almost impossible to get your ex back unless you know the reason behind your relationship failure, for the best way to solve a problem is to get to its root. If you don’t dig deep like this, even if you win your ex back, the same problem will still persist, and again likely it will end up like the first time. So remember this, to win your ex back, the first and foremost step is to understand the reason behind the breakup.
In The Magic of Making Up T.W Jackson stated that men and women have different reason to abandon a relationship, reasons which are totally different from each other. As you may have known the fact that men and women think differently, so this shouldn’t sound strange to you. But The Magic of Making Up does say that most common reason for breakups is cheating. In this very first chapter, T.W Jackson discusses the problems that can lead to cheating at the first place. Cheating is a problem, but not the root of the problem, but the things that make a person tends to cheat is the root of the problem.
Why men cheat? According to The Magic of Making Up
Men desire respect and admiration. To keep a relationship ever refreshing for a man, women must always let her man feels he is important to her and that she admires him for who he is. If a man cannot find this in a relationship he is in currently, inevitably he will look for it elsewhere, it would be lucky that if find this among friends and job, but a disaster when he tries to find that from some other women. A man can only get more excited when the woman he cares about let him feel that she is really interested in what he is doing.
Why women cheat? According to The Magic of Making up
Women on the other hand, cheat for a different reason. It is almost too stereotypical to say that women are attention seekers. Yes women need attention, so as men, but more importantly they seek for appreciation from the man they love. Women just love it when they are being appreciated for the effort they put in, regardless of whether the things they do are big or small. The moment when women don’t feel that they are being appreciated, they start to look for men that can give them much more appreciation.
The Magic of Making Up Chapter 2
Naturally, every time after a breakup, the person that is being dumped began to feel stressful and panic, he or she may desperately think of ways to restore the broken relationship. But according to TW Jackson, a person should not be panic at the moment when the one that he or she cares decides to leave, that is if he or she want to win the ex back.
Almost every person after a breakup, call or text their ex so many times saying they still love them. Worse so, others went to the extent of chasing after the ex and begging them to come back. T.W Jackson say that these are the exact things to avoid doing after a breakup.
The Magic of Making Up encourages its reader to view a breakup as taking a break from a relationship instead of losing it. Taking a break means no callings, emails, SMS, or appearing at places that the ex will usually be.
To a person that feels a huge lost in a breakup, this advice may sound absurd, but T.W Jackson argues that when a breakup just occurred, emotions judgments are taking over reasonable thinking, so that person is prone to:
- Say out words that he or she doesn’t mean to say.
- Says and does things that will only make the situation even worse that it is, perhaps even beyond fixing.
- Make other ex(s) feel jealous, and could be the case that the other ex is the one should be considered putting effort winning back.
- A person that desperately tries to beg and chase their ex looks like a disgusting stalker.
- Doing things in rush can bring back old issues
- Sometimes winning back the ex is not the motive, instead the purpose of doing so is to seek revenge for the hurt caused.
We hope we elaborated enough about the importance of following The Magic of Making Up advice of viewing breakup as taking a break from the relationship and try not to be to rush in doing things.
The Magic of Making Up Chapter 3
After the foundation of chapter 1 and 2 have been laid down, now in Chapter 3, it is time to start learn all about winning the ex back. But before proceeding with this, one must think twice, whether it is wiser to win back the ex or moving on and find another person which could be finally the right person. Through Chapter 3, The Magic of Making Up lets readers take a moment to look back and assess whether the relationship was moving toward a more positive direction or vice versa. One should ask the question, in every problem encountered together with the ex whether the issue always found solution or always left hanging.
A person cannot start a new relationship or refresh the old relationship and new relationship if he or she still haunts by issues that he or she refuses to let go. If the issue is carried along into a new or renewed relationship, it can only leads towards another breakup, maybe worse.
The Magic of Making Up Review Chapter 4
If you want to choose a person to bring out for a date or two, don’t you want them to look good? or put up with their best image? Obviously your answer is a big yes, so as in the process of restoring a broken relationship, The Magic of Making Up advices the person to look his or her best, have an image change. Not only that it can give a new image, but also it makes the person him or herself feels good and confident!
The Magic of Making Up advices their readers to take care a good care of their physical health. The reason is simple, if someone is physically healthy, he or she will likely be mentally healthy as well. A healthy mentality leads to more positive thinking and emotion and this boost the chances of doing the right thing and make the right decision to win the ex back. It is like a domino effect.
The Magic of Making Up gives a big list of things to do, food to eat, ways to keep thinking positive and etc …
The Magic of Making Up Review Chapter 5
This chapter touches on dating. At this point, this idea may sound odd but TW Jackson suggests that, for a person who just broke up, it is spiritually and emotionally healthy to date other people. But you may ask, what does this have to do with winning the ex back?
Dating is a process that restores self-confidence. When a person meets other potential candidate, he or she will realize that it is yet the end of the road. Being busy dating somebody else, is a way to keep the mind off thinking about ex too much. Thinking about ex too much and linger around the regrets can only lead to depression, which is a complication that people want to avoid.
Looking for a date may sound simple even kids can do, but to actually get someone out for a date is rather a difficult task. The Magic of Making Up teaches their reader how to draft a plan of getting a date and doing the right things when going out dating. Of course this is a valuable skill which you may use in the future if you need.
The Magic of Making Up Review Chapter 6
By assuming that a person is now all confident and ready to get back to the ex at this point, chapter 6 states that this is the right moment to approach the ex. Having done all that is recommended by The Magic of Making Up in previous chapter, a person now knows how to understand the situation, and think straight about the relationship. So whatever plan that is drafted at this point should be sensible and rational enough.
Also in chapter 6 of The Magic of Making up, readers will learn how to communicate with ex once again and say the right thing at the first conversation after a while. There are still do’s and don’ts in this case, because one small mistake can make a plan backfire. So read The Magic of Making up to find out what are the things to do and the things not to do.
In the last part of this chapter, advices and techniques recommendation are available on how to make ex agree on a date, also suitable location to date, and how to handle the situation. In other words, reconnecting with the ex requires a certain specific settings and The Magic of Making Up gives the best advices on this issue.
The Magic of Making Up Review Chapter 7
If someone has been following the previous chapters successfully, then chances are, the reader is already backed together with his or her ex by this chapter. So that is why in this chapter T.W
Jackson teaches on how to avoid another breakup. The Magic of Making Up suggests a list of fun things to maintain the excitement of being together again. Read all about it in details. This chapter is all about keeping the flame of passion for each other burning and builds a stable relationship that will last forever.
The Magic of Making Up Review Chapter 8
After all that has been said and done, the ex still refuses to come back to you, then it’s time to move on. In this chapter, The Magic of Making Up assumes the plans of winning an ex back do not work, and therefore it is not worth doing anymore. T.W Jackson advice people that are in this situation to let things go, and do the things to do when a relationship is over, including:
- Maintain the healthy habits learned from this book.
- Look for a date, for the right person is still out there.
- Avoid ex to avoid more hurt.
- Avoid a rebound relationship with ex, because it will not be as good.
- Learn from mistakes, avoid them in future relationships.
The Magic of Making up eBook is still worth the money spent after all. Despite the fact a person failed to get his or her ex back, The Magic of Making Up still helps readers in their process of moving on and hopefully finding the right person who is still out there. The Magic of Making Up is not a product that teaches only about winning the ex back, but also helps readers to decide what to do if the relationship cannot be restored.
The Magic of Making Up techniques
So, in a nutshell, I would like to expose to you some of the techniques give by The Magic of Making Up.
The “Fast Forward” Technique
On coping up with the acute situation and help oneself to psychologically get over the breakup fast, and be a normal person again. Breakup is indeed painful thing to avoid long term emotional trauma, there is an urgent need ease the pain fast, this technique is design for this purpose.
The “Instant Reconnect” Technique
Take a positive look at the breakup, and reconnect with ex, in this way, both the person and he ex can help each other to get over faster by triggering happy memories shared. If cannot be lovers, why don’t become friends?
The “Clean Slate” Method
As the name suggests, similar to wiping a slate clean and one should start a new and fresh relationship. Apologies to ex for whatever reasons that led to the breakup, even though it is unfair to a person’s opinion, this is healthy and healing.
Writing the Second Chance Letter
Use correct language and tones to write a second chance letter giving ex a chance to come back someday.
There are many more methods such as these you can find in The Magic of Making Up eBook.
Bonus you can receive from The Magic of Making Up
This eBook cost $39, when you decide to make the purchase will not only receive The Magic of Making Up eBook itself, but also 3 additional eBooks free! The bonus eBooks talk about other techniques and strategies that you can apply to boost your chances of winning back your ex.
These 3 bonuses are:
- The Clean Slate Method (as mentioned above)
- A health guide on boosting Your Metabolism
- A valuable applied psychology -The Mind Magic
But just in case you feel that this set of eBooks don’t help at all, brings more damage than good, then T.W Jackson gives you a personal guarantee that he will refund 100% of your money, no question will be asked.
If you are yet to be convinced about the effectiveness of recommendations given by The Magic of Making Up eBook, the perhaps I can recommend you a few testimonials for you to check out.